Christine Hassler left her successful job as a Hollywood agent at 25 in pursuit of a life she could be passionate about. After being inspired by her own unexpected challenges and experiences, she wrote Twenty-Something, Twenty-Everything (2005) the first guidebook to help twenty-somethings answer the questions: “Who am I, what do I want and how do I get it?” Her newly released book Twenty-Something Manifesto: Quarter Lifers Speak out About Who They Are, What They Want, and How to Get It, highlights stories and experiences unique to this generation and identifies how one’s identity develops and progresses during this decade of life.

As a Gen Y expert, life coach, professional speaker, and author, Christine supports companies, universities, and individuals in the areas of career, relationships, and self identity. She has appeared on The Today Show, CNN, and PBS, as well as various local television and radio shows, speaking about life issues and “Expectation Hangovers”–- a phenomenon she identified and trademarked. She is also a consultant with the Leadership Institute – Women with Purpose, Inc., working to develop a life-balance curriculum for college women. Christine also serves on the executive board of the Sirens Society, a non-profit organization dedicated to making the world a better place through philanthropy and business.

Christine graduated cum laude from Northwestern University. She then studied at the Communication Art Company and the Masters Program at the University of Santa Monica. Christine is a yoga enthusiast, travel junkie, wine and food enthusiast (even vegetables!), and loves to be outside. She lives in Los Angeles with her husband, Chris.

Blog Entries by Christine Hassler

Digital Dating: Desperation or Necessity?

Posted November 18, 2008 | 10:39 AM (EST)


"I always thought dating online was for desperate, older people, but now that I'm finding I can't meet anybody, I'm actually considering it myself! Am I crazy or pathetic for considering it? And I'm afraid to tell my friends. Should I keep it a secret to hide my shame? I...

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Is 25 Too Young To Be In A Committed Relationship?

39 Comments | Posted November 11, 2008 | 01:01 PM (EST)


Dear Christine,
I'm 25 years old and I've been in a serious and exclusive relationship with my girlfriend since our junior year in college. There is nothing necessarily wrong with the relationship, but I'm starting to wonder if I am making a mistake by committing so early. I'm really...

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What To Do With An Overachiever

1 Comments | Posted November 4, 2008 | 08:47 AM (EST)



Dear Christine,

My son, a college student, has been on the honor roll his entire life. Getting a B on a quiz or a paper totally freaks him out. While having a motivated kid is every parent's dream, I am worried that his relentless pursuit of straight A's...

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You've Sacrificed Everything For Your Mother...Now What?

5 Comments | Posted October 28, 2008 | 10:15 AM (EST)


Dear Christine,
I put my career on hold two years ago in order to help my mom write a book, start a career, obtain a divorce, and find a new partner. I have given 100% of my time and energy to these tasks, and I succeeded: my mom...

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Reflections On College

Posted October 24, 2008 | 02:06 PM (EST)


I started writing this on a plane headed to my 10 year college reunion in Chicago . . . by myself - which seems rather appropriate because that is the way I spent most of my time in college. As I headed back to Northwestern University with a single football...

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Dumped Over Email

5 Comments | Posted October 21, 2008 | 08:37 AM (EST)


Dear Christine,
The girl I've been dating for six months just broke up with me. But even worse than being dumped is the way she let me know it was over: she sent me an email. The subject line was "hi" and then she basically wrote that she enjoyed...

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How To Be Persistent Without Being A Pest

2 Comments | Posted October 13, 2008 | 05:15 PM (EST)


Hi Christine,

I am looking for a job in branded entertainment. I had a great interview at a talent agency recently, but she told me the position may not be open for a month or so. I sent her a thank you email as well as an article I thought...

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What To Do After An Interview

2 Comments | Posted October 7, 2008 | 09:14 AM (EST)


Dear Christine,
I had a job interview today that I thought went really well. I am anxious to follow-up with the people I interviewed with and know I should send some kind of "thank you" note as well. What is the protocol for appropriate follow-up?
- Job Seeker,...

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When Parents Divorce...And You're An Adult

1 Comments | Posted September 30, 2008 | 09:48 AM (EST)


Dear Christine,
I just found out my parents are getting a divorce which has totally caught me off guard as I thought they'd be married forever. Although I am a married adult with my own grown-up life, this is still really affecting me. I am sad for both of...

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Expectation Hangovers® at Work

Posted September 23, 2008 | 09:22 AM (EST)


Dear Christine,
I read in your book about "Expectation Hangovers®" and I feel like I am having one because of my job. I enjoy the work and environment less and less everyday, which is disappointing because I thought I'd really love working in this field. I notice that...

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Generation Y: Keeping Them Happy With Less Pay, More Perks

Posted September 16, 2008 | 09:38 AM (EST)


Dear Christine,
I am a Gen X'er running a business where the majority of my employees are Gen Y. Unlike many other managers who complain about Gen Y's sense of entitlement, I have been very impressed with my young employees' innovative ideas and dedication. Many of them are truly...

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Dos And Don'ts Of Breaking-Up

Posted September 9, 2008 | 09:36 AM (EST)


Dear Christine,
My boyfriend of two years and I broke up three months ago and I can't get over him. He was the one that ended it, but we are trying to stay friends. But every time we talk, I just want him back. I'm devastated. How do I...

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Stop Grunting Over Grunt Work

Posted September 2, 2008 | 09:22 AM (EST)


Dear Christine,
I have worked for an amazing non-profit for a few years now, my first and only job right out of college. With conceptual work and ideas I can work rather quickly and really excel, but I don't seem to be good at all the grunt work entry...

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You And Your Twenty-Something Child: How Close Is Too Close?

Posted August 26, 2008 | 02:13 PM (EST)


Dear Christine,
I am the parent of a twenty-something who is having a hard time letting go. My 25-year-old daughter and I have always been very close and now she lives in a different state and is living her own life. I know this is normal and I am...

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How To Have The Right Answers To All The Wrong Questions

Posted August 19, 2008 | 07:00 AM (EST)


I'm in the middle of my quarter-life crisis and trying to figure out what to do with my life. I have a job but not a career path. I date, but I have never had a serious relationship. I hardly feel like a grown up and I get really embarrassed...

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How To Make Your Resumé Stand Out

Posted August 12, 2008 | 06:55 AM (EST)


Dear Christine,
How do I get noticed by potential employers when they are receiving hundreds of resumes a day? - Wanting to Stand Out, Boston, 24

Dear Wanting to Stand Out,

There's nothing more disheartening than feeling like a tiny fish in a sea of hundreds of applicants....

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Job Hunting - Keys To Making the Kill

Posted August 5, 2008 | 08:50 AM (EST)


Dear Christine,
I am currently looking for a job and am overwhelmed by the amount of advice there is out there. I feel like I need to read everything to increase my chances of getting a great gig, but I know that's not possible. So I want to know,...

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How To Get Out Of A Funk And Make A Career Change

Posted July 29, 2008 | 08:41 AM (EST)


Dear Christine,
A few years ago I landed my dream job that required me to move out of state. After 2 1/2 years it was all work and no play. Even though I had many pay increases and added responsibilities, I did not have a social life outside of...

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A Coach for Everything - Aren't We Ever Good Enough?

Posted July 21, 2008 | 08:58 AM (EST)


What I want to know is when people stopped being good enough? You need tutors for the SATs, coaches for college applications, coaches to find a job and write a resume, coaches to build your self esteem, coaches to be a better communicator, coaches to find the right person, coaches...

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"I'm not an Adultolescent!"

Posted July 15, 2008 | 08:46 AM (EST)


I read your posts about adultolescents. As a hard-working member of Gen Y, I feel like I have to overcome a lot of stereotypes like the carefree, irresponsible attitude you wrote about. I don't feel entitled nor am I out for instant gratification. Do you really think that this whole...

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